Sex in the sticks
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I Make Myself Cum
I didn’t discover my ability to orgasm through masturbation until about two years ago. 33 years young! That might sound surprising, especially because I’m someone who now masturbates and orgasms regularly. But for most of my life, masturbation simply didn’t feel like it was “for me.” I rarely masturbated, and I had never really considered…
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When the Ghost Returns
The devil works hard, but men work harder. Within an hour of my last post, I got the equivalent of a “you up?” text from a past lover…We’ll call him Tom. Tom and I went to high school together and ran in the same friend circles. It wasn’t until we were out of college that…
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Cold Turkey is Cold
I’m celebrating no contact after ending things with the person I was seeing… let’s call him Bill. I’m also celebrating one week of resisting the urge to distract myself with new romantic side quests. Not that there is anything wrong with that… Unfortunately, I have a history of falling into the trap of coping with…
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I Love SEX
I love sex! I think about sex—a lot. I think about desire, attraction, arousal, pleasure, romantic connection, chemistry, sensations, and all the ways sexuality shapes our experiences of ourselves and one another. A component of Freud’s psychoanalytic theory is the ID, the most primitive, instinctive, desire fueled component of our personality. If I were to…
