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  • Robotics Rob Bringing My Sexy Back

    A few months after separating from my husband, I went to my best friend’s bachelorette party in the city. We ended the night at a club—drunk, dancing, dropping it low. I hadn’t been out in the world as a single woman in seven years, and I’d forgotten what it felt like to entertain the possibility…

  • Crushin

    I’ve been slacking on posts this week. Mostly because I’ve been busy with work and classes, but also because I’ve felt stuck and conflicted about what to post next. I keep holding back from writing about my past relationships. I’m not sure what’s blocking me, but I know there’s probably some healing in getting it…

  • I’m Lonely

    I’m feeling lonely. I had a fucking hard day and don’t know where to turn. Sometimes I don’t feel like I have anyone to turn to. And lately, as I’ve taken a pause from dating, I’ve been realizing something uncomfortable: dating has often given me a temporary sense of connection. A false—or perhaps incomplete—sense of…

  • I’m A Slut

    I am a slut. As you’ve surmised, I like sex. The word slut originated in the 14th century as a term for an untidy or dirty person, regardless of gender. It wasn’t until around the turn of the 20th century that slut evolved into a derogatory term, most often used to describe a woman perceived…